When you are ready to meet up with your Adult Contact for the first time, do not give to much away such as your address or surname, don’t forget that your home information can be obtained from the telephone book so when possible only give out your mobile number (pay as you go preferably)
Always arrange to meet in a busy public place, like a public house or the pictures anywhere that will be busy and safe.
Make sure you tell at least one person, a friend or member of your family where you are going to and give them all the information you have about the person you are going to meet, you could always take someone with you just make sure you feel safe with the contact and you can let your friend know if it is ok or not to leave you alone with your new friend by using prearranged code words of your choice. This will no doubt not be possible all the time so arrange to call your friend every hour or so to tell them you are ok, if they do not receive the call tell them to go to the police ( If you do this you must not forget to call).
On your first meeting do not go back to the other persons residence or invite them back to yours, also never get into a vehicle with them, if they are pushing the issue to go some where alone or for a drive then it is properly a wise idea to call it a night with them and go your separate ways. But make sure you are not followed.
If you feel uneasy about someone, there may be a reason. Don't tell yourself you're being silly. If you don't feel comfortable, don't give them personal details about yourself and don't arrange a second date.
Arrange for a lift home from a friend or a well known Taxi firm.
The chances of you finding your self in any danger when meeting someone from an Adult Contact site are very slim, but you should always be sure you are safe as you should if you where meeting someone you contacted in a club are even in the street
And don’t forget to practice SAFE SEX at all times.